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<!--Generated by Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/) on Wed, 10 Mar 2010 18:44:45 GMT--><rss xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><title>Chico and Bishop</title><link>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/</link><description>Home of the soapbox and funnies</description><lastBuildDate>Fri, 29 Jan 2010 03:32:55 +0000</lastBuildDate><copyright>Some Rights Reserved 2009</copyright><language>en-US</language><generator>Squarespace Site Server v5.9.2 (http://www.squarespace.com/)</generator><itunes:author>Chico and Bishop</itunes:author><itunes:subtitle>Soapbox and Funnies</itunes:subtitle><itunes:keywords>Chico,Bishop,Funnies,Soapbox,Big,Ideas,Small,World,Techvolution,Social,Animal</itunes:keywords><itunes:owner><itunes:name>David Chico Pham and Andrew Bishop</itunes:name><itunes:email>davidpham5@gmail.com</itunes:email></itunes:owner><itunes:category text="Society &amp; Culture"/><item><title>Is Sex for Money Wrong?</title><category>Big Ideas</category><category>human trafficking</category><category>intelliegence square</category><category>npr</category><category>sex trade</category><category>social media</category><dc:creator>Chico</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 23 Jan 2010 23:23:14 +0000</pubDate><link>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/2010/1/23/is-sex-for-money-wrong.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">348176:3697730:6410175</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/11238580@N00/3448033192/sizes/l/"><img src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3548/3448033192_0c3e6b1249_b.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1264564796556" alt="" width="704" height="469" /></a><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 1024px;">photo by stststuddermesomethingprofound</span></span><span style="font-size: 150%;">My dear, dear friend, Roxanne joins me in today&#8217;s podcast. We discuss her efforts in anti-human trafficking, NPR&#8217;s Intelligence Square&#8217;s resoultion &#8220;Is Sex for Money Wrong?&#8221; and finally, social media tools in the human rights campagin. Mahalo!</span></p>
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<p><span style="font-size: 130%;">Here&#8217;s the NPR debate mentioned in the podcast:</span><a  href="http://tinyurl.com/chutuh"> http://tinyurl.com/chutuh</a></p>
<p><span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable">&nbsp;<span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 491px;">image from notforsalecampaign.org</span></span></p>
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]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/rss-comments-entry-6410175.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Pens and Paper: 101 Ways to Turn Social Media into Scoops &amp; Scoops of Haagan Daz!</title><category>Avatar</category><category>Funnies</category><category>Star Wars</category><category>Techvolution</category><category>anti-social media</category><category>defriending</category><category>social media</category><dc:creator>Chico</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 04 Jan 2010 05:44:48 +0000</pubDate><link>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/2010/1/4/pens-and-paper-101-ways-to-turn-social-media-into-scoops-sco.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">348176:3697730:6215135</guid><description><![CDATA[<div class="content">
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<p>Who are these social media experts? They&#8217;re like self-proclaimed pen and paper experts. All because you have a stellar space pen, does not mean you will write the next American novel. Corporate America and these social media hacks confuse the tools for the content. I demonstrate this confusion by showing how&nbsp; George Lucas got it all wrong and how James Cameron did it right. I explore why this stuff is not rocket science, anyone now has all the tools they need, and finally a general advocacy towards defriending, unfollowing, and unsubscribing bad stuff on the internets</p>
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<p>Star War Reference - Star Wars Episode One: The Phantom Menace Review:</p>
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<p><strong style="font-size: 150%;">Vindication! Take that George Lucas!<br /></strong></p>
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<p>Bumper: <a href="http://www.blackkidsmusic.com/videos.html">Hit the Heartbreaks by the Black Kids</a></p>
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<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/8145952">Quick! Graffiti Art!</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/davidchicopham">David Chico Pham</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>
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<p>I look mighty suspicious after taking that photo.</p>
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]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/rss-comments-entry-6052504.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>8 Hours</title><category>Big Ideas</category><category>Dirty Jobs</category><category>Gary Vaynerchuck</category><category>Outliers</category><category>Rage Against the Machine</category><category>Scoops</category><category>Tom Morello</category><category>motivation</category><category>passion</category><dc:creator>Chico</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 15:19:21 +0000</pubDate><link>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/2009/12/4/8-hours.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">348176:3697730:5987028</guid><description><![CDATA[<p style="padding-left: 30px;"><span class="full-image-float-right ssNonEditable"><span><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tom_Morello"><img src="http://chicoobispo.com/storage/tom-morello.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1259942021318" alt="" /></a></span></span></p>
<p>Tom Morello of Rage Against the Machine in a magazine interview, described how he became a prolific guitarist.&nbsp; At Harvard, between and after and before classes, practiced guitar.&nbsp; At a minimum, he practiced for eight hours a day. With no musical background, except for the dusting of high school choir, he got good by practicing so much.</p>
<p><em><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outliers_%28book%29">Outliers</a> </em>by Maxwell Gladwell suggest talent is simply practcing way more than anyone else.&nbsp; But it&#8217;s not an math equation where you practice a 10,000 hours and become exceptional.&nbsp; Rather you practice 10,000 hours of whatever because you love it.&nbsp; You love it so much that the boring parts are part of the love.&nbsp; Your passion drives you to do stuff people find boring, fustrating, or indifferent about.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Tom Morrella got good because he love practicing guitar.&nbsp; This is not a behavioral in understanding passion or drive.&nbsp; It&#8217;s about an overwhelming impusle to seek and do stuff that would turn-off most people.</p>
<p>This brings my next point: passion is found in the procrasination in your life.&nbsp; One of my friends asked what do I do when I am not working.&nbsp; The immediate answer is you don&#8217;t know.&nbsp; You figure what you do, everyone does.&nbsp; But what I do between work is something I&#8217;ve been doing since I was a kid.&nbsp; I play with computers, software, innovative technologies, and read everything Tech.&nbsp; Love it. I can&#8217;t stop absorbing everything tech.&nbsp;</p>
<p>And there it is.&nbsp; That&#8217;s how you know what you&#8217;re passionate about.&nbsp; It is the same story with everyone successful person.&nbsp; They do something they don&#8217;t like doing to pay the bills, but after hours, goof-off on something they enjoy.&nbsp; Guess what? That goofing off has merit and money-potential.&nbsp; Stephen King in his book, On Writing, describes before becoming an established writer, he worked a janitor in his local high school, taught English, or work in a factory.&nbsp; But when he got home, you couldn&#8217;t take him away from writing.</p>
<p>This thinking comes from a youtube vidoe by <a href="http://tinyurl.com/3jmzpq">Gary Vaynerchuk</a> at Web 2.0 Expo in New York 2008.&nbsp; Check it and clap it up:</p>
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<p>He is right. Get off the stuff you hate doing and do something you love.&nbsp; Because that love is going to bring in a payday.&nbsp; It&#8217;s going to be tomorrow or next year.&nbsp; But there is a payday.&nbsp; Do it now during the Great Recession because when people do have money again, they will make it rain for you.&nbsp; And scoops and scoops of Haagan Daz too!</p>
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]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/rss-comments-entry-5987028.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Digital Bullpen: Online Dating Aint Easy</title><category>Gender Difference</category><category>Pulling Aside</category><category>dating</category><category>online dating</category><category>relationships</category><dc:creator>Chico</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 04:51:06 +0000</pubDate><link>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/2009/10/8/digital-bullpen-online-dating-aint-easy.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">348176:3697730:5428049</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;<span class="full-image-block ssNonEditable"><span><a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/mrobenalt/130560526/sizes/l/"><img src="http://farm1.static.flickr.com/52/130560526_f6e500e9f0_b.jpg?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1254978405494" alt="" /></a></span><span class="thumbnail-caption" style="width: 1024px;">Photo by mrobenalt</span></span></p>
<p>Although the advent of online dating made the dating marketplace more efficient, i.e. allowing more choices and better fits for people, dating is still a fustrating experience for most.&nbsp; Lets talk about how to cut through the bullshit.&nbsp; My dear, dear, dear, and one more dear, friend, Tara joins me in this podcast.&nbsp; We explore her experiences with online dating, my loveline theories on relationships and dating, and shoot the shit. Mahalo.</p>
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]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/rss-comments-entry-5428049.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Defriend Facebook, With All Due Respect</title><category>Techvolution</category><category>defriend</category><category>defriending</category><category>facebook</category><category>fb</category><dc:creator>Chico</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 05:03:01 +0000</pubDate><link>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/2009/9/10/defriend-facebook-with-all-due-respect.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">348176:3697730:5147090</guid><description><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;</p>
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<p>Defriending people is a big deal on Facebook. But sometimes you got to purge folks who are on the peripheral, not on the radar, or inactive in your life. It&#8217;s okay. In fact, it&#8217;s empowering.</p>
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<p>I explore the meaning of succes. Three ways to super charge your career are 1) being utterly lazy, 2) waiting for things happen, and 3)buying a lottery ticket as a plan B. Just joking. Listen to the podcast and disagree with me.</p>
<p><em>Intro and Outro Bumper: the Pillows - the March of the God</em></p>
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/rss-comments-entry-5059979.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Your Number: on Men</title><category>Pulling Aside</category><category>Small World</category><category>attraction</category><category>men</category><category>number</category><category>relationships</category><category>women</category><dc:creator>Chico</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 02:11:26 +0000</pubDate><link>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/2009/7/8/your-number-on-men.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">348176:3697730:4566922</guid><description><![CDATA[Everyone has a number. Your number is how you&#8217;re ranked with the opposite sex in general.  Like it or not, everyone sizes you up.  We all have one.  Many will contend that it&#8217;s shallow and superficial, and even deny its existence.  I can asure you, though, it&#8217;s very real. Furthermore, it&#8217;s shallow and superficial to judge someone in 30 seconds or less.  But this article is not for you then. I argue it&#8217;s not just about looks. Looks are part of it, though, but it goes beyond that.  Let me explain
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/rss-comments-entry-4566922.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Cool Kid</title><category>Big Ideas</category><category>Cool</category><category>Popularity</category><category>Pulling Aside</category><category>college</category><category>girls</category><category>guys</category><category>high school</category><category>real world</category><category>relationship advice</category><dc:creator>Chico</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jun 2009 04:31:56 +0000</pubDate><link>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/2009/6/10/cool-kid.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">348176:3697730:4252833</guid><description><![CDATA[What does cool mean? Well, cool to a crud caricature of a teenager was the concept of those who measured their own interests by the rejection of somebody&#8217;s else passions. You made fun of those, (and always the justification of &#8220;hey man, just a joke. Lighten up) who were awkward, weird, unusual, and nerdy. The focus of differences between each other framed the social fabric as a competition for a zero-sum victory. The prize? You get to peak out in high school and die slowly for the next 60 years in the same spot you were raised.
]]></description><wfw:commentRss>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/rss-comments-entry-4252833.xml</wfw:commentRss></item><item><title>Happy Birthday, DCP</title><category>25</category><category>Birthday</category><category>Bishop</category><category>Bromance</category><category>Chico</category><category>Funnies</category><dc:creator>Chico</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jun 2009 12:48:00 +0000</pubDate><link>http://chicoobispo.com/soapbox/2009/6/3/happy-birthday-dcp.html</link><guid isPermaLink="false">348176:3697730:4175532</guid><description><![CDATA[<p><object width="667" height="500"><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always" /><param name="movie" value="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4979751&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=c9ff23&amp;fullscreen=1" /><embed src="http://vimeo.com/moogaloop.swf?clip_id=4979751&amp;server=vimeo.com&amp;show_title=1&amp;show_byline=1&amp;show_portrait=0&amp;color=c9ff23&amp;fullscreen=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowscriptaccess="always" width="667" height="500"></embed></object></p>
<p><a href="http://vimeo.com/4979751">Happy Birthday, DP</a> from <a href="http://vimeo.com/davidchicopham">David Chico Pham</a> on <a href="http://vimeo.com">Vimeo</a>.</p>
<p>Bishop gives me props from across the world. Thanks man. The is one of the better of gifts ever.</p>
<p>&nbsp;(originally aired May 31, 2009)</p>
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